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Why is My Baby Crying So Much?

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Caring for a newborn comes with its share of joys and challenges. One of the most distressing experiences for parents is a crying baby that’s difficult to soothe. While it’s perfectly normal for newborns to cry as part of their communication, constant crying can leave parents feeling overwhelmed and unsure.

In this article, we’ll explore common reasons why your baby is crying, when you can expect crying to lessen, and strategies for coping. We’ll also discuss what not to do, when to seek medical help, and how Bootin and Savrick Pediatric Associates can support you during this challenging time. Contact our offices in Greater Houston today to book an appointment!

Why is My Baby Crying So Much?

Newborns cry to express their needs or discomfort. It’s their way of saying, “I need something,” or “I’m not feeling quite right.” Here are some common reasons a baby is crying:

  • Hunger: Most babies cry when they need to be fed. Feeding on demand can help soothe your baby.
  • Dirty Diaper: A wet or dirty diaper can cause discomfort, prompting your baby to cry until they are clean and dry.
  • Sleepiness: Babies often cry when they’re tired but can’t fall asleep. A quiet environment, swaddling, or gentle rocking can help.
  • Temperature: If your baby is too hot or too cold, they may cry to signal their discomfort. Check their clothing and adjust as needed.
  • Overstimulation: Newborns can become overwhelmed by too much noise or activity. Creating a calm environment can help your baby relax.
 

Understanding these basic needs can go a long way in calming your crying baby and giving you peace of mind.

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Could it be Colic?

If your baby’s crying is excessive and difficult to soothe, they may have colic. Colic is defined as prolonged, unexplained crying in an otherwise healthy baby, typically lasting for more than three hours a day, three days a week, for at least three weeks.

Colic often begins around two weeks of age and peaks at six weeks, with most babies outgrowing it by three to four months. While the exact cause of colic is unknown, it may be linked to an immature digestive system, gas, or sensitivity to stimulation.

Strategies to soothe colicky babies include:

  • Using white noise: Gentle sounds can mimic the womb and help calm your baby.
  • Trying a warm bath: A warm bath can relax your baby and ease discomfort.
  • Holding them upright: This can help alleviate gas and digestion-related discomfort.
 

If your baby has persistent or severe symptoms, consult with their doctor to rule out other underlying conditions.

When Do Babies Stop Crying So Much?

The good news is that most babies gradually cry less as they grow. By 3 to 4 months of age, crying typically decreases significantly as your baby learns other ways to communicate. During this time, you may also notice your baby becoming more interactive, smiling, and responding to your cues, which can be both encouraging and rewarding.

How to Cope When Your Baby Won't Stop Crying

Caring for a crying baby can be stressful, but there are steps you can take to stay calm and support your baby:

  1. Take a break: If the crying becomes too overwhelming, place your baby in a safe space like a crib and step away for a few minutes to collect yourself.
  2. Ask for help: A family member or trusted friend can provide much-needed support when you need a moment to recharge.
  3. Create a soothing routine: Incorporate calming activities like a warm bath or gentle rocking into your baby’s daily routine.
  4. Use a carrier: Holding your baby close in a baby carrier can help them feel secure and reduce crying.
 

Remember, it’s perfectly normal to feel frustrated at times. Taking care of yourself is essential so you can be there for your baby.

What Not to Do

In moments of frustration, it’s crucial to take a deep breath and step back if needed. Shaking a baby, even briefly, can cause severe and life-threatening injuries.

If you ever feel overwhelmed, place your baby in a safe spot, like a crib, and take a few moments to calm down. Reaching out to a family member or trusted friend for support is always a good option.

When to Go to a Doctor

While most crying is perfectly normal, excessive crying can sometimes indicate an underlying issue. Contact your pediatrician if:

  • Your baby has a fever, rash, or signs of illness.
  • Crying is accompanied by vomiting, diarrhea, or constipation.
  • They’re not eating or gaining weight as expected.
  • Crying sounds unusual or is accompanied by lethargy.
 

At Bootin and Savrick Pediatric Associates, we have experience treating a wide range of infant health concerns. Our compassionate team is here to provide guidance and support for you and your baby.

Finding Comfort During Challenging Moments

Caring for a crying baby is one of the toughest parts of parenthood, but it’s important to remember that this phase is temporary. With time, patience, and the right support, you and your baby will find your rhythm.

If you’re concerned about your baby’s crying or need personalized guidance, schedule an appointment with Bootin and Savrick Pediatric Associates. Our team in Houston, Texas, is dedicated to helping your family navigate the joys and challenges of parenthood. Contact us today to get started!

Medically reviewed by Dr. Patti Savrick